Obamacare Boils Down To More Free Shit For Women

Peter Schiff, a prominent libertarian-minded economist, and ever the government watchdog, has brought to our attention that Obamacare discriminates against men. Namely, there is no more price difference between men and women under Obamacare; previously insurance companies would charge more for women and less for men. Insurance companies normally would charge women more since they used healthcare much more than men do, as women are weaker, generally more sickly, and also have that tendency to get pregnant, but now men are going to subsidize a woman’s life even more, in additional to all the usual benefits women get in virtue of their sex.

Schiff points out that men already die sooner than women and pay more for life insurance; men get into more accidents and pay more for auto insurance; men already pay more in terms of time and money during the courtship process as well. Health insurance was their only break, but now they do not even get that.

I would recommend watching the entire video above. It’s only 10 minutes long and Schiff does a great job of laying out why Obamacare is a raw deal for men.

And for the “men” who voted for Obamacare - what were you thinking, voting for a male feminist?

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The Sissy Who Refused To Wear Men’s Clothing

By 2Wycked

The inimitable LA Times has recently reported on the story of a long-time, cross-dressing man known as Sissy Goodwin.

Sissy has lived his entire life in Wyoming. He was born into a terribly unhealthy world, as his mother was an alcoholic and his father was physically abusive. As a response to this awful and untoward treatment by a male figure, he hyper-identified with his mother. Most men like Sissy in his age bracket became forerunners to second-wave feminism, refused to identify with anything remotely masculine and simply divorced themselves from positive relationships with other men.

In the long run, most men in this situation simply have life-long struggles with masculine identity that relate directly with self-esteem, ability to attract and maintain healthy relationships with women and the inability to connect positively with other men. However, Sissy took a bizarre approach – wearing women’s clothing. Tellingly, his sense of feminine fashion seems oddly stationed in the pre-1950's era – he even admits as such, saying his preferred clothing belongs more in the 1950's. Since he is a clear-cut liberal, citing the 1950's is damning – he knows his clothing belongs in another era.

Sissy recounts, with detail, numerous incidences of what he calls “homophobia.” He recalls hateful slurs directed at him, sneers in the local supermarket and outright violence visited on him. The article goes so far as to mention Matthew Shepard, a gay man killed under disputed circumstances in the late 1990's. Gay advocates refuse to admit Shepard’s murder was for any reason other than two men who were closeted homosexuals that murdered an out and proud gay man in Shepard. Still, for this incredible torrent of vitriolic hatred and bigotry, did Sissy leave Wyoming for the tolerant pastures of a big city? The article states cross-dressing is so commonplace in major cities that he would exist simply as another human. No, no, no: Sissy remained in the feverishly intolerant atmosphere of Wyoming.

I am going to suggest something radical, apparently intolerant, and true: people do what they want. If Sissy was so worried about being a victim of crime and his acceptance in a community, then why didn’t he move? The most common response to this assertion would be that people should be able to be whatever they want wherever they want. I don’t agree with that statement for many reasons, but most saliently here is this: people do what they want precisely because people only do that they want. If what he truly wanted was to be accepted in Wyoming, he would learn to dress in way that reflected prevailing norms. If what he truly wanted was social acceptance, he would move to San Francisco where his choice of who he is would be more accepted.

The fact he refused to change his style of dress while still remaining in his home state says exactly what he wants: for people around him to treat him badly for his choices as a man. Sissy knows that people will automatically assume he is 100% against violence and expressions of bigotry, but his behavior completely belies that he against expressions of hatred and violence towards himself.

Sissy wants to be treated badly by men he perceives as masculine. The article makes a point to highlight he teaches at the dreadfully male-centric world of Casper College’s power technology lab, where he bravely wears his yellow top and carries his pink lunchbox. First off, those are more markers of youthful femininity, not a person drawing Social Security – anybody else notice the girlish bow in his hair?

Second, Sissy seems to love to press right up against the edge of the box, without actually having to step outside the box. He seems to be relieved that so many of his students have decided to show their support by wearing pink in their hair, but come on. What was the point of all this wearing women’s clothing? To combat gender expectations? You mean he has engaged in a pattern of behavior over multiple decades so other men can make the choice to wear women’s clothing? Was it his biological calling to wear female’s clothing? Or are we simply to accept this man’s choices simply because he engaged in them?

The latter reason is the story-time lesson we are supposed to glean from this heavy-handed and predictable piece. As expected: male privilege, bigoted intolerance in the red-state America and women fearlessly accepting a man who wears lace panties on the regular. Regardless, the most interesting aspect of this story is the complete lack of understanding of why people are the way they are. A common claim, here, is that people should be allowed to be who they are so long as it doesn’t hurt anybody. This man has kids. His own son was quoted as stating he sees his father as brilliant, but Sissy admits some form of guilt or shame, as he admits “I blame myself now…[my son] was defending his dad when he didn’t really know what he was defending him for.”

Really? Now, suddenly, all that self-aggrandizing behavior Sissy engaged in over the course of decades – bringing shame to his family and embarrassing his wife (you can’t argue she wasn’t negatively affected by all the attention directed his way) – is now an issue because his son is implicated? Sissy feels some twinges in his heart now that a young boy has been placed in a similar situation as he was. Forced to deal with untoward attention he didn’t ask for, his son reminds Sissy all too much of his youth. A self-absorbed male gives birth to another male – just a potential usurper to the primary role Sissy has carved out for himself in the Lifetime movie of his life.

Which might be the saddest aspect of this story: Sissy chose this path, but as a response to his father’s abuse, and most likely, his mother’s weakness. He may have taken to wearing women’s clothing in a way of idolizing the mother he deified; it may have been a way of acting out the role she should have taken in response to an abusive father. Regardless, this man’s life was one of his choosing, but far, far sooner than he should had to make a choice.

Children shouldn’t be forced to take up roles, much less ones taken up in the crepuscular lights of their existence. This deep-seated choice of his to wear women’s clothing was born of a highly unhealthy identification with his mother. As a result of his choices as a child, he has made a life of himself and how people respond to his decision to be a man who wears women’s clothing. Without children, he can freely view others simply as objects who either give him worship (tolerance) or hatred (anybody who doesn’t worship him). With children, he suddenly feels a strong jolt of guilt, only to deny that guilt and port it out as shame, as he has refused to change and figure out quite why he needs to dress as a woman.

Any man who desires so deeply to wear women’s clothing – much less women’s fashion dating back to their youth – has serious problems. Media outlets, like the LA Times, love tidy stories of impossibly quick transformations or normalization of personality disorders. Both serve to feed the audience’s desire to either have a quick and easy morality tale, or an all-too-brief expose that highlights the pervasive intolerance of people who are not in the targeted readership demographic.

As for Sissy, he still refuses to address why he needs to wear women’s clothing. Indeed, his son observed that his father wore men’s clothing at his sister’s wedding. Curious, Sissy refused to wear men’s clothing for his entire son’s childhood, but when in the presence of God at a wedding, he surrenders to wearing men’s clothing. Somebody has a clear issue with authority figures.

It really doesn’t matter, as Sissy has spent his entire life wasting emotional energy on propping up a psychological construct that carried him through his childhood, only to not abandon it as an adult – clinging to a past that hasn’t existed for decades. He has drug his children, his wife and his social circle at large through repeated episodes of those who would mock or abuse him for wearing women’s clothing. A fully grown man – a father, a husband – needing to be a victim of perceived hatred in order to bolster his self-identity. Sad.

I’d venture to guess that Sissy’s dad beat him when his dad claimed Sissy wasn’t man enough. Sissy’s dad was 100% wrong when Sissy was a child, but his dad is 100% right today.

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The Art of The Approach: Part 3

By Christian McQueen

Today I’m going to cover the nuts n bolts of approaching in Non-Party Environments. When you’re in a club and the music is pumping, sluts are dancing and alcohol is flowing like the Hoover Dam, approaching is more natural and is expected. When you’re in a Starbucks, walking on campus (not streaking, but walking haha) and getting some new condoms at your local Wal-Greens, how do you approach that cute girl with the perky tits and booty shorts?

First off, unless you walk around with a manic energy of a clown on crack, then the approach is different. There are always exceptions to the rules and only after practicing approaches and a shit ton of them, will you be able to perfect your style of approach based on your natural personality and vibe. But for Non-Party Environment approaches, err on the side of being the following: Cool, Calm and Collected.

Cool: Not temperature wise smart ass, but cool as in style and vibe. If you want to run card routines with a fuzzy hat and eye shadow smeared on your eyelids then go ahead. I don’t advocate that type of ‘Game’ and never will.

What is the best outfit you feel like a straight G in? What shirt makes you feel confident and makes you hold your shoulders back a little more, walk a little taller and gives you the confidence to look motherfuckers in the eye without wavering? Wear that. Know your style, perfect it, for it always be evolving to a certain extent and it like it or not, it is a girl’s First Impression of You.

There are a lot of times where you’ll spot the girl and have time before you approach her. Unless she drops out of the sky naked and bent over in front of you, you’ll have a minute or two to compose yourself, pull your tongue back in your mouth and take a deep breath. Approach anxiety can be very real, but I’m here to tell you that it can be overcome with a quick exercise:

Count to 10 slowly while breathing in and out on each number count.

1….breathe in…2….breathe out…etc.

Don’t huff and puff like a fat bitch reaching for the Cheetos on the top shelf, but do it discreetly. If you’re in Starbucks, take a quick trip to the bathroom and do it. Wal-Greens, go to the magazine aisle, pick up the latest issue of GQ and do it. Once you practice this exercise and have successful approaches you’ll get comfortable with that FACT that it’s really not a big deal and 99.9% of the time nothing bad will happen to you when you approach a girl.

Everybody has SOME swagger somewhere in them. It might take time to find it, cultivate it and make it pop, but it can be done. When you develop your swagger + game, it won’t matter WHAT you say to a chick so much, it’s HOW you say what you say. Re-read what I just said. It’s THAT key.

Being calm is hard I know. Your heart may be racing, palms sweaty, mom’s spaghetti on your sweater, oh wait did I just drop some Eminem? Yes. Now back to the main event. It’s hard to be calm when you approach a girl, especially the hotter the girl. Shit, even I still get some approach anxiety every once in a while!

I could write a book on some of the bad approaches of my past. This one in particular I remember as especially tragic.

I spotted a cute girl inside Aldo, the shoe store every fucking mall in the world has. I walked in right up to her and literally couldn’t get a word out of my mouth. I just stood there looking at her like a dumbass. She looked at me like I was an alien and while my brain was screaming at my mouth to say something, anything, my mouth moved but not a single syllable came out. After a few seconds, but what felt like 2-3 minutes, I did an abrupt about face and skedaddled out of Aldo without a word spoken. I survived and you will too. The girl? I’m sure she went home and masturbated to THAT experience of meeting the great McQueen.

You have your style together, you’ve taken 10 deep breathes and now you feel calm. Now what? Collect your thoughts. What are you wanting out of this interaction? To just flirt? No. To fuck her on the Wal-Greens counter? Maybe. To get her phone number? Hell to the motherfucking yes.

You MUST have an objective when you approach or else you’ll be all over the place while interacting with the girl and that will scream lack of confidence and lack of life.

Lack of life? Yes. You’re a high value man who has places to go and people to see, remember? When you first start approaching and you haven’t mastered it yet, you want to be like a sniper. Focus on your target, get in and get out. The quicker and smoother you execute the interaction, the less chance of ‘fucking up’. Here’s an example of a real life approach I did at an Office Max. I hate the fucking store but I had shit to get there.

When I walked into the store I noticed one of the cashiers. She was hot, a solid 8, tall, dark hair and eyes and long curly hair. I tossed a small smile when walking past her initially, but that was it. She shyly smiled and that’s it. After getting my boring office supplies I approached HER register to have an excuse to interact. She greeted me and proceeded to ring up my useless office shit.

Me: Well you must be thrilled by your job…

Her: (laughing) It sucks, but I’m in school too! (She felt the need to prove to me that she had other stuff going on in her life. Good sign)

Me: Where? Community College? Damn girl you planning on running the world? (Wink)

Her: (Acting offended) Ouch. Actually yea, I go to XYZCC

Me: So basically you work and go to school. Yawn. When do you get drunk and make “bad” decisions?

Her: It’s been a while, but I do like to party.

Me: (while she was blathering I opened my phone to the NEW CONTACT screen) Put your number in (saying this while handing her the phone)

Her: Sure! (puts it in) Call me soon (smiles big)

Me: We’ll see (Smirk and I bounce)

I text her my after-meet text which goes like this:

“Christian the sexy muthafucka you met at XYZ. Let’s party soon ; )”

She replied back with agreeable comments. I ignored and text her 2 days later. She came over to a house party, had two drinks and then we fucked. I fucked her in her ass as well. Good times.

Now I spoke 5 short ‘lines’ and walked away with her contact info. There is NO need to go on and on. In fact the more you take away the mystery of the interaction, the greater the odds of the girl growing bored of it. Girls LIVE for this shit. Meeting a guy while going about their mundane lives and the experience of having a stranger hit their button and bounce. It intrigues them and trust me they’ll replay the interaction a million times in their head while calling their friends to get their opinions. It’s catnip for pussies, er I mean chicks. Fitting though isn’t it?

You now have the components of the state to be in when approaching, but lastly I know you’re thinking, “What do I say?”, so here is reasons WHY to approach. What excuse do you need in order to approach a girl? Now every author on meeting and banging girls has their own method for this, but mine differs slightly from the mainstream gurus. Mine is more direct and maintains strong frame. I am an advocate of direct openers.

Now I don’t mean to walk up and say, “Hi, I’m Christian, what’s your number?”; what I mean is that you establish INTENT quickly. This isn’t always done through what I say, but how I say what I say and body language. Like the Office Max slut, I established flirtatiousness immediately with my first ‘line’. I didn’t ask her where the blue paper was first or anything. I noticed her when I walked in, we exchanged friendly smiles and that was it. When I went to the register, I started by teasing her and escalating the interaction by continuing to tease her. This establishes higher value on my part, that I am superior to her. This is extremely effective, especially with girls in the 18-23 year old range.

I quickly turned the interaction to a naughty direction with the “when do you make time for bad decisions blah blah” line. Girls aren’t stupid. They’ve been getting hit on since middle school and even earlier. They know when a guy is interested. Now how about being strong about that assumption and running with it? It’s not giving away your game by doing this, it’s higher level game in the sense you know she knows you are attracted to her, otherwise why the fuck would you have approached her? You’re taking the horse by the reigns, seeing something you desire and will take.

The difference between you and the other 99 guys who hit on her that day, is that you can TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT. Your happiness that day will not be dependent on her reaction to you. You have such a strong frame that she is drawn into your world and will want to be a part of it by the time you walk away with her phone number.

Here’s a formula to make it simple for you. In fact if your memory is as fucked up as mine, for having drank swimming pools worth of vodka over the years, then write the formula on an index card in black magic marker and carry it with you everywhere. Or since it is 2013, put it on your phone.

Your Frame is that you are a high value man with shit to do and people to see and you don’t have much time to waste. This will come across in your attitude and body language. Also, you are leading the interaction, as opposed to asking the chick if it’s okay for you to get her number. Never ask. Assume.

Your ‘Excuse’ is you see a girl and want to meet her. Ideally you want to fuck her at some point. The ‘Excuse’ is the logical reason for you opening your mouth to the girl. The ‘Excuse’ turns into…

Your Direct Opener is what you are saying to open the chick on an intent level.

Here’s a real world example:

Frame: You’ve got your ‘Power Outfit’ on, did your 10 seconds of deep breaths, have an objective (to get her number) and know that you have high value, thus the girl should want to meet you and it’s her loss if she blows you off. Don’t trip, you’ll get some blow-offs, but soon you’ll get blowjobs. : )

The girl you spotted at Starbucks is reading a book, funny enough it’s Nightclub Bible, I kid, she’s reading 50 Shades of Grey. Perfect.

‘Excuse’: is using the book to open her while turning that ‘Excuse’ into a direct opener.

You: I noticed what you’re reading (This is the ‘Excuse’)… (And here is the direct opener) you must have a different side to you (wink)

Her: (Laughing) Maybe…what’s it to you?

You: Nothing. Besides the fact that I’m your Christian Grey. Lucky day for you.

Her: Oh really? Hmmm, I don’t know. My parents told me not to talk to strangers.

You: Did they tell you to read books about S&M?

Her: (laughing) Ah no

You: I’m “Your name”, what’s yours?

Her: Starbucks Slut

You: (having pulled your phone out and having the screen open to new contact screen) I have to run, I’m late to my S&M workshop (wink), but put your number in. We’ll grab a drink sometime.

Her: (taking your phone and putting in her number) Sounds intriguing

You: Maybe (smile and get the fuck out of there. Don’t stand in the parking lot calling your buddy to tell him the story. Bounce like Biggie’s killers)

Make a small mark on the back of the index card with a pen after every approach. That way you can keep track of your approaches. Similar to the old school approach of making a notch on your belt or bedpost actually haha.

I just threw a lot at you, but I want you to think and process this article over and over. The first 3 Parts of this 7 Part Series covered Approaching. My next article is Escalation Part 1. There will be a total of 7 articles entitled as follows and will be a great guide for you to study and apply covering from getting her digits to getting her buttass naked.

Previous Articles incl this one:

The Art of The Approach

The Art of The Approach: Part 2

In the meantime, get the Kindle mini-version of my Nightclub Bible (How To Pick Up Girls In Nightclubs & Bars) for only $2.99 on Amazon. Just click here . Cheaper than a 3 pack of condoms and it last forever.

Read More: Showing Value Before The Approach

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The Art of The Approach: Part 3

By Christian McQueen

Today I’m going to cover the nuts n bolts of approaching in Non-Party Environments. When you’re in a club and the music is pumping, sluts are dancing and alcohol is flowing like the Hoover Dam, approaching is more natural and is expected. When you’re in a Starbucks, walking on campus (not streaking, but walking haha) and getting some new condoms at your local Wal-Greens, how do you approach that cute girl with the perky tits and booty shorts?

First off, unless you walk around with a manic energy of a clown on crack, then the approach is different. There are always exceptions to the rules and only after practicing approaches and a shit ton of them, will you be able to perfect your style of approach based on your natural personality and vibe. But for Non-Party Environment approaches, err on the side of being the following: Cool, Calm and Collected.

Cool: Not temperature wise smart ass, but cool as in style and vibe. If you want to run card routines with a fuzzy hat and eye shadow smeared on your eyelids then go ahead. I don’t advocate that type of ‘Game’ and never will.

What is the best outfit you feel like a straight G in? What shirt makes you feel confident and makes you hold your shoulders back a little more, walk a little taller and gives you the confidence to look motherfuckers in the eye without wavering? Wear that. Know your style, perfect it, for it always be evolving to a certain extent and it like it or not, it is a girl’s First Impression of You.

There are a lot of times where you’ll spot the girl and have time before you approach her. Unless she drops out of the sky naked and bent over in front of you, you’ll have a minute or two to compose yourself, pull your tongue back in your mouth and take a deep breath. Approach anxiety can be very real, but I’m here to tell you that it can be overcome with a quick exercise:

Count to 10 slowly while breathing in and out on each number count.

1….breathe in…2….breathe out…etc.

Don’t huff and puff like a fat bitch reaching for the Cheetos on the top shelf, but do it discreetly. If you’re in Starbucks, take a quick trip to the bathroom and do it. Wal-Greens, go to the magazine aisle, pick up the latest issue of GQ and do it. Once you practice this exercise and have successful approaches you’ll get comfortable with that FACT that it’s really not a big deal and 99.9% of the time nothing bad will happen to you when you approach a girl.

Everybody has SOME swagger somewhere in them. It might take time to find it, cultivate it and make it pop, but it can be done. When you develop your swagger + game, it won’t matter WHAT you say to a chick so much, it’s HOW you say what you say. Re-read what I just said. It’s THAT key.

Being calm is hard I know. Your heart may be racing, palms sweaty, mom’s spaghetti on your sweater, oh wait did I just drop some Eminem? Yes. Now back to the main event. It’s hard to be calm when you approach a girl, especially the hotter the girl. Shit, even I still get some approach anxiety every once in a while!

I could write a book on some of the bad approaches of my past. This one in particular I remember as especially tragic.

I spotted a cute girl inside Aldo, the shoe store every fucking mall in the world has. I walked in right up to her and literally couldn’t get a word out of my mouth. I just stood there looking at her like a dumbass. She looked at me like I was an alien and while my brain was screaming at my mouth to say something, anything, my mouth moved but not a single syllable came out. After a few seconds, but what felt like 2-3 minutes, I did an abrupt about face and skedaddled out of Aldo without a word spoken. I survived and you will too. The girl? I’m sure she went home and masturbated to THAT experience of meeting the great McQueen.

You have your style together, you’ve taken 10 deep breathes and now you feel calm. Now what? Collect your thoughts. What are you wanting out of this interaction? To just flirt? No. To fuck her on the Wal-Greens counter? Maybe. To get her phone number? Hell to the motherfucking yes.

You MUST have an objective when you approach or else you’ll be all over the place while interacting with the girl and that will scream lack of confidence and lack of life.

Lack of life? Yes. You’re a high value man who has places to go and people to see, remember? When you first start approaching and you haven’t mastered it yet, you want to be like a sniper. Focus on your target, get in and get out. The quicker and smoother you execute the interaction, the less chance of ‘fucking up’. Here’s an example of a real life approach I did at an Office Max. I hate the fucking store but I had shit to get there.

When I walked into the store I noticed one of the cashiers. She was hot, a solid 8, tall, dark hair and eyes and long curly hair. I tossed a small smile when walking past her initially, but that was it. She shyly smiled and that’s it. After getting my boring office supplies I approached HER register to have an excuse to interact. She greeted me and proceeded to ring up my useless office shit.

Me: Well you must be thrilled by your job…

Her: (laughing) It sucks, but I’m in school too! (She felt the need to prove to me that she had other stuff going on in her life. Good sign)

Me: Where? Community College? Damn girl you planning on running the world? (Wink)

Her: (Acting offended) Ouch. Actually yea, I go to XYZCC

Me: So basically you work and go to school. Yawn. When do you get drunk and make “bad” decisions?

Her: It’s been a while, but I do like to party.

Me: (while she was blathering I opened my phone to the NEW CONTACT screen) Put your number in (saying this while handing her the phone)

Her: Sure! (puts it in) Call me soon (smiles big)

Me: We’ll see (Smirk and I bounce)

I text her my after-meet text which goes like this:

“Christian the sexy muthafucka you met at XYZ. Let’s party soon ; )”

She replied back with agreeable comments. I ignored and text her 2 days later. She came over to a house party, had two drinks and then we fucked. I fucked her in her ass as well. Good times.

Now I spoke 5 short ‘lines’ and walked away with her contact info. There is NO need to go on and on. In fact the more you take away the mystery of the interaction, the greater the odds of the girl growing bored of it. Girls LIVE for this shit. Meeting a guy while going about their mundane lives and the experience of having a stranger hit their button and bounce. It intrigues them and trust me they’ll replay the interaction a million times in their head while calling their friends to get their opinions. It’s catnip for pussies, er I mean chicks. Fitting though isn’t it?

You now have the components of the state to be in when approaching, but lastly I know you’re thinking, “What do I say?”, so here is reasons WHY to approach. What excuse do you need in order to approach a girl? Now every author on meeting and banging girls has their own method for this, but mine differs slightly from the mainstream gurus. Mine is more direct and maintains strong frame. I am an advocate of direct openers.

Now I don’t mean to walk up and say, “Hi, I’m Christian, what’s your number?”; what I mean is that you establish INTENT quickly. This isn’t always done through what I say, but how I say what I say and body language. Like the Office Max slut, I established flirtatiousness immediately with my first ‘line’. I didn’t ask her where the blue paper was first or anything. I noticed her when I walked in, we exchanged friendly smiles and that was it. When I went to the register, I started by teasing her and escalating the interaction by continuing to tease her. This establishes higher value on my part, that I am superior to her. This is extremely effective, especially with girls in the 18-23 year old range.

I quickly turned the interaction to a naughty direction with the “when do you make time for bad decisions blah blah” line. Girls aren’t stupid. They’ve been getting hit on since middle school and even earlier. They know when a guy is interested. Now how about being strong about that assumption and running with it? It’s not giving away your game by doing this, it’s higher level game in the sense you know she knows you are attracted to her, otherwise why the fuck would you have approached her? You’re taking the horse by the reigns, seeing something you desire and will take.

The difference between you and the other 99 guys who hit on her that day, is that you can TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT. Your happiness that day will not be dependent on her reaction to you. You have such a strong frame that she is drawn into your world and will want to be a part of it by the time you walk away with her phone number.

Here’s a formula to make it simple for you. In fact if your memory is as fucked up as mine, for having drank swimming pools worth of vodka over the years, then write the formula on an index card in black magic marker and carry it with you everywhere. Or since it is 2013, put it on your phone.

Your Frame is that you are a high value man with shit to do and people to see and you don’t have much time to waste. This will come across in your attitude and body language. Also, you are leading the interaction, as opposed to asking the chick if it’s okay for you to get her number. Never ask. Assume.

Your ‘Excuse’ is you see a girl and want to meet her. Ideally you want to fuck her at some point. The ‘Excuse’ is the logical reason for you opening your mouth to the girl. The ‘Excuse’ turns into…

Your Direct Opener is what you are saying to open the chick on an intent level.

Here’s a real world example:

Frame: You’ve got your ‘Power Outfit’ on, did your 10 seconds of deep breaths, have an objective (to get her number) and know that you have high value, thus the girl should want to meet you and it’s her loss if she blows you off. Don’t trip, you’ll get some blow-offs, but soon you’ll get blowjobs. : )

The girl you spotted at Starbucks is reading a book, funny enough it’s Nightclub Bible, I kid, she’s reading 50 Shades of Grey. Perfect.

‘Excuse’: is using the book to open her while turning that ‘Excuse’ into a direct opener.

You: I noticed what you’re reading (This is the ‘Excuse’)… (And here is the direct opener) you must have a different side to you (wink)

Her: (Laughing) Maybe…what’s it to you?

You: Nothing. Besides the fact that I’m your Christian Grey. Lucky day for you.

Her: Oh really? Hmmm, I don’t know. My parents told me not to talk to strangers.

You: Did they tell you to read books about S&M?

Her: (laughing) Ah no

You: I’m “Your name”, what’s yours?

Her: Starbucks Slut

You: (having pulled your phone out and having the screen open to new contact screen) I have to run, I’m late to my S&M workshop (wink), but put your number in. We’ll grab a drink sometime.

Her: (taking your phone and putting in her number) Sounds intriguing

You: Maybe (smile and get the fuck out of there. Don’t stand in the parking lot calling your buddy to tell him the story. Bounce like Biggie’s killers)

Make a small mark on the back of the index card with a pen after every approach. That way you can keep track of your approaches. Similar to the old school approach of making a notch on your belt or bedpost actually haha.

I just threw a lot at you, but I want you to think and process this article over and over. The first 3 Parts of this 7 Part Series covered Approaching. My next article is Escalation Part 1. There will be a total of 7 articles entitled as follows and will be a great guide for you to study and apply covering from getting her digits to getting her buttass naked.

Previous Articles incl this one:

The Art of The Approach

The Art of The Approach: Part 2

In the meantime, get the Kindle mini-version of my Nightclub Bible (How To Pick Up Girls In Nightclubs & Bars) for only $2.99 on Amazon. Just click here . Cheaper than a 3 pack of condoms and it last forever.

Read More: Showing Value Before The Approach

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The Art of The Approach: Part 3

By Christian McQueen

Today I’m going to cover the nuts n bolts of approaching in Non-Party Environments. When you’re in a club and the music is pumping, sluts are dancing and alcohol is flowing like the Hoover Dam, approaching is more natural and is expected. When you’re in a Starbucks, walking on campus (not streaking, but walking haha) and getting some new condoms at your local Wal-Greens, how do you approach that cute girl with the perky tits and booty shorts?

First off, unless you walk around with a manic energy of a clown on crack, then the approach is different. There are always exceptions to the rules and only after practicing approaches and a shit ton of them, will you be able to perfect your style of approach based on your natural personality and vibe. But for Non-Party Environment approaches, err on the side of being the following: Cool, Calm and Collected.

Cool: Not temperature wise smart ass, but cool as in style and vibe. If you want to run card routines with a fuzzy hat and eye shadow smeared on your eyelids then go ahead. I don’t advocate that type of ‘Game’ and never will.

What is the best outfit you feel like a straight G in? What shirt makes you feel confident and makes you hold your shoulders back a little more, walk a little taller and gives you the confidence to look motherfuckers in the eye without wavering? Wear that. Know your style, perfect it, for it always be evolving to a certain extent and it like it or not, it is a girl’s First Impression of You.

There are a lot of times where you’ll spot the girl and have time before you approach her. Unless she drops out of the sky naked and bent over in front of you, you’ll have a minute or two to compose yourself, pull your tongue back in your mouth and take a deep breath. Approach anxiety can be very real, but I’m here to tell you that it can be overcome with a quick exercise:

Count to 10 slowly while breathing in and out on each number count.

1….breathe in…2….breathe out…etc.

Don’t huff and puff like a fat bitch reaching for the Cheetos on the top shelf, but do it discreetly. If you’re in Starbucks, take a quick trip to the bathroom and do it. Wal-Greens, go to the magazine aisle, pick up the latest issue of GQ and do it. Once you practice this exercise and have successful approaches you’ll get comfortable with that FACT that it’s really not a big deal and 99.9% of the time nothing bad will happen to you when you approach a girl.

Everybody has SOME swagger somewhere in them. It might take time to find it, cultivate it and make it pop, but it can be done. When you develop your swagger + game, it won’t matter WHAT you say to a chick so much, it’s HOW you say what you say. Re-read what I just said. It’s THAT key.

Being calm is hard I know. Your heart may be racing, palms sweaty, mom’s spaghetti on your sweater, oh wait did I just drop some Eminem? Yes. Now back to the main event. It’s hard to be calm when you approach a girl, especially the hotter the girl. Shit, even I still get some approach anxiety every once in a while!

I could write a book on some of the bad approaches of my past. This one in particular I remember as especially tragic.

I spotted a cute girl inside Aldo, the shoe store every fucking mall in the world has. I walked in right up to her and literally couldn’t get a word out of my mouth. I just stood there looking at her like a dumbass. She looked at me like I was an alien and while my brain was screaming at my mouth to say something, anything, my mouth moved but not a single syllable came out. After a few seconds, but what felt like 2-3 minutes, I did an abrupt about face and skedaddled out of Aldo without a word spoken. I survived and you will too. The girl? I’m sure she went home and masturbated to THAT experience of meeting the great McQueen.

You have your style together, you’ve taken 10 deep breathes and now you feel calm. Now what? Collect your thoughts. What are you wanting out of this interaction? To just flirt? No. To fuck her on the Wal-Greens counter? Maybe. To get her phone number? Hell to the motherfucking yes.

You MUST have an objective when you approach or else you’ll be all over the place while interacting with the girl and that will scream lack of confidence and lack of life.

Lack of life? Yes. You’re a high value man who has places to go and people to see, remember? When you first start approaching and you haven’t mastered it yet, you want to be like a sniper. Focus on your target, get in and get out. The quicker and smoother you execute the interaction, the less chance of ‘fucking up’. Here’s an example of a real life approach I did at an Office Max. I hate the fucking store but I had shit to get there.

When I walked into the store I noticed one of the cashiers. She was hot, a solid 8, tall, dark hair and eyes and long curly hair. I tossed a small smile when walking past her initially, but that was it. She shyly smiled and that’s it. After getting my boring office supplies I approached HER register to have an excuse to interact. She greeted me and proceeded to ring up my useless office shit.

Me: Well you must be thrilled by your job…

Her: (laughing) It sucks, but I’m in school too! (She felt the need to prove to me that she had other stuff going on in her life. Good sign)

Me: Where? Community College? Damn girl you planning on running the world? (Wink)

Her: (Acting offended) Ouch. Actually yea, I go to XYZCC

Me: So basically you work and go to school. Yawn. When do you get drunk and make “bad” decisions?

Her: It’s been a while, but I do like to party.

Me: (while she was blathering I opened my phone to the NEW CONTACT screen) Put your number in (saying this while handing her the phone)

Her: Sure! (puts it in) Call me soon (smiles big)

Me: We’ll see (Smirk and I bounce)

I text her my after-meet text which goes like this:

“Christian the sexy muthafucka you met at XYZ. Let’s party soon ; )”

She replied back with agreeable comments. I ignored and text her 2 days later. She came over to a house party, had two drinks and then we fucked. I fucked her in her ass as well. Good times.

Now I spoke 5 short ‘lines’ and walked away with her contact info. There is NO need to go on and on. In fact the more you take away the mystery of the interaction, the greater the odds of the girl growing bored of it. Girls LIVE for this shit. Meeting a guy while going about their mundane lives and the experience of having a stranger hit their button and bounce. It intrigues them and trust me they’ll replay the interaction a million times in their head while calling their friends to get their opinions. It’s catnip for pussies, er I mean chicks. Fitting though isn’t it?

You now have the components of the state to be in when approaching, but lastly I know you’re thinking, “What do I say?”, so here is reasons WHY to approach. What excuse do you need in order to approach a girl? Now every author on meeting and banging girls has their own method for this, but mine differs slightly from the mainstream gurus. Mine is more direct and maintains strong frame. I am an advocate of direct openers.

Now I don’t mean to walk up and say, “Hi, I’m Christian, what’s your number?”; what I mean is that you establish INTENT quickly. This isn’t always done through what I say, but how I say what I say and body language. Like the Office Max slut, I established flirtatiousness immediately with my first ‘line’. I didn’t ask her where the blue paper was first or anything. I noticed her when I walked in, we exchanged friendly smiles and that was it. When I went to the register, I started by teasing her and escalating the interaction by continuing to tease her. This establishes higher value on my part, that I am superior to her. This is extremely effective, especially with girls in the 18-23 year old range.

I quickly turned the interaction to a naughty direction with the “when do you make time for bad decisions blah blah” line. Girls aren’t stupid. They’ve been getting hit on since middle school and even earlier. They know when a guy is interested. Now how about being strong about that assumption and running with it? It’s not giving away your game by doing this, it’s higher level game in the sense you know she knows you are attracted to her, otherwise why the fuck would you have approached her? You’re taking the horse by the reigns, seeing something you desire and will take.

The difference between you and the other 99 guys who hit on her that day, is that you can TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT. Your happiness that day will not be dependent on her reaction to you. You have such a strong frame that she is drawn into your world and will want to be a part of it by the time you walk away with her phone number.

Here’s a formula to make it simple for you. In fact if your memory is as fucked up as mine, for having drank swimming pools worth of vodka over the years, then write the formula on an index card in black magic marker and carry it with you everywhere. Or since it is 2013, put it on your phone.

Your Frame is that you are a high value man with shit to do and people to see and you don’t have much time to waste. This will come across in your attitude and body language. Also, you are leading the interaction, as opposed to asking the chick if it’s okay for you to get her number. Never ask. Assume.

Your ‘Excuse’ is you see a girl and want to meet her. Ideally you want to fuck her at some point. The ‘Excuse’ is the logical reason for you opening your mouth to the girl. The ‘Excuse’ turns into…

Your Direct Opener is what you are saying to open the chick on an intent level.

Here’s a real world example:

Frame: You’ve got your ‘Power Outfit’ on, did your 10 seconds of deep breaths, have an objective (to get her number) and know that you have high value, thus the girl should want to meet you and it’s her loss if she blows you off. Don’t trip, you’ll get some blow-offs, but soon you’ll get blowjobs. : )

The girl you spotted at Starbucks is reading a book, funny enough it’s Nightclub Bible, I kid, she’s reading 50 Shades of Grey. Perfect.

‘Excuse’: is using the book to open her while turning that ‘Excuse’ into a direct opener.

You: I noticed what you’re reading (This is the ‘Excuse’)… (And here is the direct opener) you must have a different side to you (wink)

Her: (Laughing) Maybe…what’s it to you?

You: Nothing. Besides the fact that I’m your Christian Grey. Lucky day for you.

Her: Oh really? Hmmm, I don’t know. My parents told me not to talk to strangers.

You: Did they tell you to read books about S&M?

Her: (laughing) Ah no

You: I’m “Your name”, what’s yours?

Her: Starbucks Slut

You: (having pulled your phone out and having the screen open to new contact screen) I have to run, I’m late to my S&M workshop (wink), but put your number in. We’ll grab a drink sometime.

Her: (taking your phone and putting in her number) Sounds intriguing

You: Maybe (smile and get the fuck out of there. Don’t stand in the parking lot calling your buddy to tell him the story. Bounce like Biggie’s killers)

Make a small mark on the back of the index card with a pen after every approach. That way you can keep track of your approaches. Similar to the old school approach of making a notch on your belt or bedpost actually haha.

I just threw a lot at you, but I want you to think and process this article over and over. The first 3 Parts of this 7 Part Series covered Approaching. My next article is Escalation Part 1. There will be a total of 7 articles entitled as follows and will be a great guide for you to study and apply covering from getting her digits to getting her buttass naked.

Previous Articles incl this one:

The Art of The Approach

The Art of The Approach: Part 2

In the meantime, get the Kindle mini-version of my Nightclub Bible (How To Pick Up Girls In Nightclubs & Bars) for only $2.99 on Amazon. Just click here . Cheaper than a 3 pack of condoms and it last forever.

Read More: Showing Value Before The Approach

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The Abolition Of Man

By Bryan Paul Rouleau

In 1944 C.S. Lewis published The Abolition of Man, a three chapter handbook that uses a horse tranquilizer of logic to paralyze the legs of the enduring progressive quest to pillage and burn objective truth to the ashy ground.  The book is named after its final chapter, which in one line strikes at the heart of the predicament that the progressive plan now logically and inevitably faces:

“Man’s final conquest has proved to be the abolition of Man.”

According to Lewis, there exists a body of first principles; traditional values that are universally and objectively applicable to all humanity.  Lewis calls this body of collected ancient wisdom the Tao.  Lewis argues that the conditioners rebel against the Tao to their own detriment (Lewis refers to progressives as “progressives” occasionally throughout his argument, but more commonly calls them “the conditioners,” a term that more aptly describes their tactics).  They believe that in destroying the Tao, they can then either build a new body of values, or they can finally live in a world absent of values and first principles.

To those conditioners who would build a new body of values, Lewis reveals that by their mere recognition that some first principles are worthy, they recognize that there are worthy human values.  Therefore, any attempt to alter the Tao is done to suit a personal or ideological agenda or done out of ignorance of the Tao.  Lewis rhetorically asks:

“Whence comes the Innovator’s authority to pick and choose?”  Lewis then explains, “Since I can see no answer to these questions, I draw the following conclusions.  This thing which I have called for convenience the Tao, and which others may call Natural Law or Traditional Morality of the First Principles of Practical Reason or the First Platitudes, is not one among a series of possible systems of value.  It is the sole source of value judgment.  If it is rejected, all value is rejected.”

To the conditioners who would reject all value, who adhere to the Nietzschean ethic and believe there are no values and there are no first principles, Lewis argues that the logical conclusion of their belief only means that in the end, they will have destroyed themselves.  Lewis relays a personal story, where a man claimed that “Man has Nature whacked,” even as he was, ironically, dying of tuberculosis.  The man said that although we would be a casualty in man’s war against nature, it is not uncommon for the winning side of a fight to still suffer casualties.  Lewis aptly points out that “Man’s conquest of Nature is an expression often used to describe the progress of applied science.”

Lewis argues that man has made no progress against nature and has gained zero power over it since the dawn of time.  He uses airplanes as an example.  Airplanes simply use the physical laws of nature to function; they do not defy those laws or subvert them.  Although new inventions and new applied science might seem to give man an advantage over nature, this is not the case; Nature is merely the tool by which man makes those claims of power and any power gained by any man is only power gained over other men, and not over nature.  If you were the last man on Earth, could you alone rebuild civilization?  Could you alone build and fly a jet?  Perhaps you can, but most cannot.  So in inventing the airplane, men who were capable of doing so used Nature to gain power over those men, like me, who have to rely on buying a ticket to achieve flight.

Lewis makes this distinction because nature includes human nature.  There are men in this world who have been conditioned by the conditioners into thinking human nature can also be beaten.  And they are deceived by the apparent retreat of nature from man’s newly gained ‘powers over it’.  But nature’s arms held high in surrender is merely a Trojan Horse, because when man draws near enough to claim final victory, he will only find that he has destroyed what he is; he will have abolished himself, because he no longer believes anything; he sees through everything, and as Lewis says, a man who sees through everything sees nothing.  Humans will walk the earth, perhaps for a short time longer, but they will not be men by definition, because they have ripped from themselves everything that is objectively true about being a man.

Why do the conditioners, the progressives, the so-called innovators, think that their goals are worthy when every ‘advance’ they believe they make is in fact a denial of truth and a piecemeal removal of the laws that make us men?

Take feminism.  After 200,000 years of mankind’s existence, did the 1960s feminists and their descendants happen upon a new truth about humanity?  Feminists will argue that feminism merely requests that women be equal to men under the law and in perceived worth and dignity; but equality under the law already exists, and equal worth and dignity is certainly a first principle, a branch in the Tao, if there ever was one.  So what else do they fight for?

Feminists want total control.  And they perceive, most ironically, that the way to gain full control over men and over society, is to behave like men; in dress, in attitude, and in professional pursuits.  They also encourage men to not behave like men – that is, they want men to be more like the traditional woman.  They deny gender roles, which are unequivocally true and necessary (another immutable branch of the Tao).  Women are best suited to be women, and men are best suited to be men.  Women in the 1960s, however, found a new truth and made ‘progress’ for all humanity, or so they continue to believe.

I would ask them: whence comes your authority to pick and choose?  Feminists, after all, at once recognize the branch of the Tao that calls for equal dignity and respect of men and women, but not the branch of the Tao that defines the two genders separately and assigns them separate roles in nature.  In their picking and choosing they have denied all objective value, and they now seek to burn down the nature of man and build a new one.  But in doing so, they only burn down themselves; they have systematically rejected all the true and wonderful things about womanhood and feminine quality, and traded it for a construct that is unnatural and doomed to collapse.

The silver lining is that this history of humankind is cyclical, and the feminist revolution can only be tenable for so long before it collapses under its own weight and a counter-revolution takes its place; a counter-revolution that encourages men to be men and women to be women.  But until then, the conditioners, the progressives, the innovators, and the feminists will live in their fairy tale land of progress.  A fairy tale land that Lewis describes thusly:

“What I most fear is the reply that I am ‘only one more’ obscurantist, that this barrier, like all previous barriers set up against the advance of science, can be safely passed. Such a reply springs from the fatal serialism of the modern imagination — the image of infinite unilinear progression which so haunts our minds. Because we have to use numbers so much we tend to think of every process as if it must be like the numeral series, where every step, to all eternity, is the same kind of step as the one before. I implore you to remember the Irishman and his two stoves. There are progressions in which the last step is sui generis — incommensurable with the others — and in which to go the whole way is to undo all the labour of your previous journey.”

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Our First Date

By Law Dogger

I met you either at a bar somewhere or online and after a few playful texts we choose a night to meet. It is of no import if it is a weekday or weekend night, as long as I can plan the logistics correctly. My goal on our first date is to sleep with you. If we are meeting by your place, then I will have already asked about your roommates and living situation in an indirect way. For example, I will ask if you like living in (insert city), if you have any friends there, and subsequently “what about your roommates?” This will lead you to telling me how many roommates you have and a few things about them, which in turn allows me to evaluate how difficult it would be to go back to your place after the date, and more importantly how likely or unlikely the bang would be. If you are coming to me that’s no issue, because I live alone.

We will get drinks and potentially some food at a nice-to-high-end place. If you are coming to me, you will park at my place and either I’ll drive or we walk to the bar because it will be no more than 5 minutes away. I will greet you with a hug to start the physical contact process. If I am coming to you, I will pick you up so you can drink freely. I do not greet you with a hug or kiss. I am either in a suit with no tie, or a blazer and jeans. You will never be overdressed for me.

Once we arrive at our date location, I open the restaurant or bar door and allow you to walk in. I want you to feel the traditional mindset I am invoking, and know that you are the woman in this setting. I let you sit down first. Then I sit next to you, not across from you. I tell you it is because I don’t want to have to yell during our date but in reality it is so I can touch you more easily as we talk to each other. I ask you about your drinks of choice and you tell me and I mentally take note of what you like for later. We get a round of drinks and start chatting about whatever.

Every placement of my hand and every move I make is calculated. I let my thigh rest on your thigh for compliance testing. Do you move your thigh away? Do you let it sit there? Do you actually push back a little? Eventually I have my arm over your chair and at times will hold onto your upper back.  I will go to tell you something in your ear after purposefully not saying it loudly enough, to create sexual tension as our cheeks meet to exchange this important detail. I maybe hold an extra second so you wonder if I’m going to kiss you or not. But I won’t kiss you.

As you tell me stories I yawn noticeably one time. You will ask me if I think you are boring and be offended. I tell you of course not, I was just yawning. It doesn’t matter if you don’t believe me, because you have already taken offense to it. Good.  I also look around a lot and act like I am not interested at times. At other times I am listening intently about what you are saying. You tell me that you “cannot figure me out.” Perfect. You ask me how many dates I go on a week and I say none, this is my first and I am hoping to potentially hold hands with you at some point in the night as I’m too nervous to kiss a girl. You retort “Shutup!” and ask me again. I ask you for a sip of your drink because I want to try it. I don’t answer your question and eventually you give up trying to get an answer.

I tell you pre-scripted stories to gauge your interest in sex. I tell you about that time I went to a male strip show and the girls were amazingly horny and loud. Do you agree? Do you find that offensive? I go into detail about how girls were brought on stage and basically molested. Again, what is your offense level, or are you ok with it? I tell you about how I’ve visited 24 countries and can speak 4 languages. I tell you about how quickly Brazilian girls show affection, or how feminine FSU girls are. I mention numerous times how I don’t judge people — so it gets ingrained in your mind that should you want to have sex with me the first night, I won’t judge you.

We look around at people at the bar and I say let’s play a game and guess who’s on a date, who’s in a relationship, etc. I specifically point out people and say that guy will never get laid, she sees him as just a friend. I point across the room and say those two have already fucked. Again, sex, sex, sex.  There shouldn’t be a question where our minds are at.

The bill comes and I let it sit there for about 30 seconds. Just enough time to make you sweat but not enough time for you to offer. I am traditional and I have told you this, so I am paying. After 30 seconds I take the bill and put it aside by me, so you cannot pay but also so we do not break our conversation. No rush here. After a few minutes, I pay and I tell you “let’s go” but I do not say where.

As we walk out, I will have my hand on your lower back with you in front of me and will say my standard line of “I’m not tired, are you tired? I can stand to hang out a bit longer.” One of two things usually happens. If I’ve pissed you off enough with my yawning or looking around, or offended you with my stories, you will tell me you are tired and want to go home or flat out say I was rude. This is when I engage in some damage control and grab your face and make out with you, regardless of where we are or who is watching. I tell you to calm down you are misinterpreting things and so on. I’m a good kisser, so you will feign a protest but eventually relent. If you are into me after we leave, then I don’t make out with you because I don’t have to yet.

Now, either way we are ready to hang out a bit more. Since I asked you your drinking proclivities earlier, I know what you like to drink. Chances are you like champagne. If we are by my place, I tell you my client recently gave me this organic champagne and said I should really try it. My client never gave me a bottle,  I bought it at Trader Joe’s a few hours ago for $7. If we are by your place, I magically have a bottle of wine or champagne in my car and we can go drink it at your place. You eventually agree and I hope you say the magic words “but we are not going to have sex.” If you say that, then I know we are going to have sex.

Once inside I amplify touching but hold back kissing. We pour a drink and put on some music or, if at your place, the TV. After about 10 minutes or so, I do one of two things. If you were wearing heels or wedges, I ask you to stand up so I can see you “without your inches of bullshit on.” When you are in front of me and I am of course taller than you staring down, I pat your head like a good girl and then go for the makeout and go strong. If you were not wearing heels, I ask to see your hands because I know they will be smaller than mine. I then pull you in to make out with you.

I escalate and escalate hard. I will be a bit rough. I will physically pick you up as we are standing, and carry you towards the bedroom. If you say no not in there, fine, I will go back to the couch and throw you on there. Note, I will not gently place you down there. I know girls like it rough.  I take my cues from both your words and your actions. Experience trumps anything you read in theory, and having been on many many dates I can tell by now what you actually mean and what you don’t mean. If you are pushing me away, I will back off. If you are grabbing my dick through my pants, I will push forward. Eventually you will tell me that “you’re so bad” or “do you ever calm down?!” Again, one of two things will happen. You will eventually stop me, but will not punish me for going for sex. That’s fine. I know the next time I see you we will have sex. And if I don’t see you again, then you were not serious about having sex with me in the first place. There is no losing here.

The better alternative is we do end up having sex. A few times. And again, I will either see you again or I won’t. If I do, cool, we can have sex again. If I don’t — whether it’s because you now feel like a slut or think that I just want you for sex and not a relationship — that’s cool too because chances are as an American girl I wasn’t that serious about you anyway.

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Law Dogger is an attorney in Southern California and the litigation partner of his law firm. A traditionalist at heart, he travels often in an attempt to expose himself to as many cultures across the globe as possible. His column runs every Wednesday and he can be found on Twitter as well.

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